tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post3262675877215558277..comments2024-02-10T10:20:14.121-08:00Comments on A Daily Scoop: In VainStephanie Waitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08952237536421682841noreply@blogger.comBlogger44125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-3116686666232646062009-12-13T09:52:20.779-08:002009-12-13T09:52:20.779-08:00Honestly, didn't read the comments. I know thi...Honestly, didn't read the comments. I know this is an older post. But I wanted to share my perspective.<br /><br />I used to think just the speaking of a name was to be reverenced. While this is true, there is also a much greater offense. When we use the sacred name of another to justify our actions -- that is much more concerning to God and to those whose names we take upon ourselves.<br /><br />It has bothered me when others will use the names of my children who died to get out of doing things because they are so "troubled," and yet it is clear it is just an excuse. It makes me so very frustrated that my little one's names are used in vain. In grief, it is hard for me. Sometimes I worry that when things are hard, and I blame it on the tender feelings I have of losing Bridget and Dominic, I worry that I am justifying not being the strong person I need to be and in vain invoking their names in justification. I know, though, that God understands my heart and my capacity and will judge accordingly. So don't misunderstand.<br /><br />But there are many times that those of us who have taken the name of our Savior upon us wrongfully assert authority to use His name in relation to some sort of act or outcome that *WE* feel is justified, when in reality it is contrary to the Will of the Lord. I think we can't always discern, but there are definitely times when it is clear. Look at, for example, the case of Brian Mitchell who has justified his actions in the name of God. I think *that* is more horrifying a use of the name of the Lord in vain than simply using the Lord's name as an expletive. Both are to be avoided, but we really must be so very careful not to attribute any of our actions as justified. Even acts that are not as "sinister" as Mitchell's.plaidspoliticshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00393586634918991649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-16614020101830507502008-09-03T13:25:00.000-07:002008-09-03T13:25:00.000-07:00I found your blog today. Thank you for being a go...I found your blog today. Thank you for being a good example of the church and it's teachings and for sharing them with anyone that reads about your life. This post is a lesson that I needed to hear today. I don't even know you, but your loss brings me to tears. I'm so glad that you have the gospel.Tabbihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02958532376409004345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-89908789861843215992008-07-30T19:02:00.000-07:002008-07-30T19:02:00.000-07:00A great explanation and perspective of what it mea...A great explanation and perspective of what it means to have and show respect for our Savior!Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14500181507537002516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-29756160237687141482008-07-29T21:02:00.000-07:002008-07-29T21:02:00.000-07:00I want you to know I love you, Im still reading yo...I want you to know I love you, Im still reading your blog, still soaking up the messages. And I wanted to tell you, if you need me, Im here, and I love you!Chelseahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14379896136369866181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-40820487943849632032008-07-29T15:53:00.000-07:002008-07-29T15:53:00.000-07:00Wonderful,wonderful post. I so enjoy your insights...Wonderful,wonderful post. I so enjoy your insights.Jorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05344793220084310923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-40974677748076423202008-07-29T10:36:00.000-07:002008-07-29T10:36:00.000-07:00I have never looked at it that way before. But re...I have never looked at it that way before. But reading this makes perfect sense and really struck me. I can't imagine someone using one of my kid's names that way. Wow how many times do I hear "oh my g__" and I probably don't think about it because it is such a common phrase.. Thanks for posting this.Jeannettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03009433997845409554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-5682656049990123302008-07-28T22:53:00.000-07:002008-07-28T22:53:00.000-07:00Your comments make me pause; I have broken that co...Your comments make me pause; I have broken that commandment and I am newly resolved not to. <BR/><BR/>I love the photograph of beautiful Camille.Belindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03857758041508278054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-58287378679720785732008-07-28T21:23:00.000-07:002008-07-28T21:23:00.000-07:00I don't want to distract in anyway from this b...I don't want to distract in anyway from this beautify post, but I do want to share with you an insight presented to our Sunday School class, not too long ago, about Exodus 20:7.<BR/><BR/>Our very knowledgeable, yet humble, teacher pointed out that, most likely, this scripture refers to men taking the name of God or Jesus Christ when they do not have the priesthood authority to do so. <BR/><BR/>D&C 63:60-62: “Behold, I am Alpha and Omega, even Jesus Christ. Wherefore, let all men beware how they take my name in their lips–For behold, verily I say, that many there be who use the name of the Lord, and use it in vain, having not authority.”<BR/><BR/>In other words, they do it "in vain" because it is fruitless, and non-binding. Just think of all the men and women leading churches today who preach as if they have authority from God, when they lack the keys of the Melchizedek Priesthood. <BR/><BR/>I hope that made sense. Our Sunday School teacher said it so much better, and it really does make sense. <BR/><BR/>Of course, this doesn't mean that we have license to speak our Heavenly Father's name or our Savior's name in any way that is unholy or disrespectful. I couldn't agree more with what you said about reverencing those sacred names!!<BR/><BR/>love ya. lyn.lyn.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03467996762401927595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-47623113299083803432008-07-28T17:57:00.000-07:002008-07-28T17:57:00.000-07:00When I read your deep, heart-felt personal thought...When I read your deep, heart-felt personal thoughts, I feel a deep connection with you... as though I have known you my whole life. I have felt the emotions you describe. My tiny son passed away in december. It is a pain that I would not wish upon anyone. <BR/><BR/>You are a strong, faithful woman. And a wonderful mother. I can tell. Take comfort in knowing that our precious children await our arival in the Celelstial Kingdom where we will have the oppetunity to raise them in a perfect world... a world free of pain, sorrow, and temptation. A world where everything is pure and holy! How great will be our joy!<BR/><BR/>I love you, friend. I pray for you often and my thoughts are always with you. hold on to your faith, and pray always. And remember that you are NEVER alone.Lindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01551647942730841309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-80502415340391129922008-07-28T17:47:00.000-07:002008-07-28T17:47:00.000-07:00Stephanie-That was so beautiful. I will never be ...Stephanie-<BR/>That was so beautiful. I will never be able to say a prayer the same. Thank you.<BR/><BR/>Would you mind terribly letting me know the flowers of your two other girls? You mentioned that the tulip was for Camille, and the lily for Lauren. I could not find anywhere else what the others were. You can email me from my profile. If you are too busy and/or don't want to share that information I completely understand.kara jaynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05072478992169188916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-72193851140850870052008-07-28T17:31:00.000-07:002008-07-28T17:31:00.000-07:00wow, that was incredible! I agree with you and ho...wow, that was incredible! I agree with you and hope it is okay for me to link to your page! Thanks for the reminder and renewal of faith for me!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-75243085637687669122008-07-28T16:49:00.000-07:002008-07-28T16:49:00.000-07:00I don't know you personally, but like many of your...I don't know you personally, but like many of your other blog stalkers, I visit your blog occasionally. My cousin recommended it, and I find comfort in your words. I am reminded each day about the importance of the plan of salvation, the Atonement, and my loving Heavenly Father who knows me. I am also taking more time with each of my children. Thank you for inspiring me to become better. You have a mission in life, and I know that your trials are a part of that mission. You have a way to reach out to others. Thank you for writing and sharing when you probably do not feel like it.<BR/><BR/>I am sure that you have read the article, but in the last Ensign there was an article about sharing the gospel through the internet. It talked about using your blog as a way to do this. I am trying to do this, but you are a wonderful example of this. I am sure you have touched many people with your strength and faith.Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10685723743221422945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-85429325679866986442008-07-28T16:17:00.000-07:002008-07-28T16:17:00.000-07:00Very well put. Once again.... inspiring!!Very well put. Once again.... inspiring!!Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14248991727080210277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-35219276343366248862008-07-28T14:37:00.000-07:002008-07-28T14:37:00.000-07:00What a perfect post, Stephanie. I've always strug...What a perfect post, Stephanie. I've always struggled with explaining why we don't take His name in vain... somehow me just feeling sick over it wasn't enough. You have managed to articulate it so sweetly and completely. I love your daily inspiration and look forward to it. Thanks again for being so close to the Spirit. It's really such a blessing for all of US.Mythreesonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18405697535321328232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-70797775156806836812008-07-28T14:24:00.000-07:002008-07-28T14:24:00.000-07:00I wrote you a note before but I wanted to say than...I wrote you a note before but I wanted to say thank you again for your beautiful words of wisdom that are so inspiring to all of us. I have held my children a little longer and laughed a little harder with them each and every day since I started reading your blog. Thank you so much for your inspiration. You have touched the lives of so many in such a short time. Our prayers are continually with you and your loved ones at this time. Your angel baby is beautiful!McGiven Family....https://www.blogger.com/profile/05628988612957105331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-53040125040746762292008-07-28T14:22:00.000-07:002008-07-28T14:22:00.000-07:00Dear Waite family,thank you for your daily inspira...Dear Waite family,<BR/>thank you for your daily inspiration. I would like to share with you what you inspired me to do - to share my testimony through my blog. I lost my brother 16 years ago - and while it never completely goes away, the pain gets easier to deal with. This is, in part, what I shared.<BR/>"It always surprises me, as most anyone who has lost someone knows, how life can be so normal and then - wham - oh yeah. Now I remember. I remember the pain. Maybe it is because August is soon here. Maybe it is because people are talking about the county fair. Maybe it is because it is such a deep hurt to loose someone you love that your body remembers of it's own will. It knows when it is time to mourn. I said that I mourn for me. I do not wish him back to this earth life for him. I know that where he is there is peace and joy and love and our Father in Heaven. I mourn for the sister-in-law I do not have. I mourn for the nephews and neices that are not with us, for the family photo that doesn't exist, for the hope that he would finally stop teasing me!!!! - or at least I could tease him back a little! I mourn that my husband never met him - they would get along well. I mourn that my sons do not know what a good man he is and that they are not getting teased by him. Even as I mourn I find peace though. Peace that these experiences are not to be had now - but they will happen. Life continues after death. My Savior died for me that I might be forgiven of my sins and live again. With my family. So it is more without than with for me now, but someday it will be more with than without." You are doing a great thing sharing the gospel and comforting many people with your strength. Thank you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-83521522746512949182008-07-28T12:47:00.000-07:002008-07-28T12:47:00.000-07:00Thank you for your sweet and powerful reminder tha...Thank you for your sweet and powerful reminder that we need to keep the name of our savior sacred not only in our hearts and our prayers but on our lips as well.<BR/><BR/>It has always amazed me how being a parent has helped me feel so much closer to my Father in Heaven. You have reminded us all that we need to not only love Him and His Son, but respect them for what they have done and continue to do for us.Maureenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12859797469558710557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-48870151453807458902008-07-28T09:52:00.000-07:002008-07-28T09:52:00.000-07:00I spent the last hour and a half reading your blog...I spent the last hour and a half reading your blog. I'm sure you can imagine my sobs as I read each word. I don't know what to say. this post touched me so deeply. Thank you for your faith. Thank you for being a beacon of light that the world needs. Your precious baby and I share the same name, so it was even more difficult to read details of your last 6 weeks. I grieve with you and express my absolute sympathies and condolences at the loss of your baby. I feel bad for the post I wrote on my blog this morning as I just feel so worn out. Now I feel like I need to fall on my knees and express my gratitude for the two angels who wear me out daily, but are absolute gifts from my Father in Heaven. Again, thank you for sharing your faith and your strength. I pray you will feel His strength to get through today.Camillehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13721656937690869200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-51746496836238938192008-07-28T08:39:00.000-07:002008-07-28T08:39:00.000-07:00What a beautiful and insightful post, put in such ...What a beautiful and insightful post, put in such a way as I have never thought of before. Thank you for your insightCardallshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11892829000971779922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-9353322717130829592008-07-28T08:38:00.000-07:002008-07-28T08:38:00.000-07:00Wow you are amazing. My best friends little girl ...Wow you are amazing. My best friends little girl had drowned on friday. I am telling her to come look at your blog. She needs all the help and love right now that she can.Crystal Caldwellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11318906762560049377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-22149513746173556152008-07-28T08:25:00.000-07:002008-07-28T08:25:00.000-07:00I just love to look at little Camille. She is jus...I just love to look at little Camille. She is just so beautiful and it makes me happy to look at her sweet face. Thank You for sharing so many precious pictures of her.Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13828771314299049409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-67757509061449856742008-07-28T07:21:00.000-07:002008-07-28T07:21:00.000-07:00I love this post and the photo of your beautiful l...I love this post and the photo of your beautiful little girl that tops it. You have such a way of teaching right from wrong, again I will say your daughters are truly lucky to have you to guide them as they grow. I also want to thank you for sharing all of your strength with all of us who log in daily. Your words force me to stop my busy life and recognize just how precious life is. Thank you for your inspiration, I feel very lucky to have found your blog!<BR/>Always in my thoughts, Tiffin :)Ivens Eventshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06940898045822312275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-59546785624661590852008-07-28T06:56:00.000-07:002008-07-28T06:56:00.000-07:00This is something I feel strongly about as well. ...This is something I feel strongly about as well. Unfortunately I think many people do not understand what it means to take the Lord's name in vain. This will help many I'm sure. Even using His name flippantly is inappropriate. I will try to be more respectful in my prayers and pause to think of His importance. Thank you for the reminder!Brimacahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14167556237804797375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-63367153259041498212008-07-28T05:24:00.000-07:002008-07-28T05:24:00.000-07:00Love to you Stephanie.JaneLove to you Stephanie.<BR/><BR/>JaneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260216734032540750.post-48106394088966613062008-07-28T00:42:00.000-07:002008-07-28T00:42:00.000-07:00You do not know me. My best friend serves with you...You do not know me. My best friend serves with your sister (Michelle) in Y.W. in AZ. She had told me about your blog (how wonderful and gifted a writer you were and your story), but I failed to get your blog address from her before I left. Well, a few days later I happen to stumble upon it myself, strange actually. I have spent the last hour looking through your blog with tears streaming down my face and my heart ACHING for your loss. I am definetly one of those people who trip all over themselves in a situation like this (so PLEASE forgive me if I offend you in ANY way). I know you prefer only certain things said certain ways, but you also said not to not say something just because of being afraid of offending!:) <BR/><BR/>I think you are AMAZING! You probably don't feel that way every moment of every day...but you ARE amazing. My hands shake at the THOUGHT of experiencing the kind of pain you describe in some of your posts. I have not lived a charmed life by any means. I've had my share of heartache, but NOTHING that would come CLOSE to this. I have 2 daughters of my own, and I cannot BELIEVE that you can do this without so much as a "why me?" or even just a little anger towards Heavenly Father. I am afraid that I would not be as strong as you are. You are very real with us as you tell us sometimes there are days when just breathing is a chore, but then you also have days where (to me) you probably exceed even our Heavenly Father's expectations for you at this time.<BR/><BR/>I am just SO sorry for your loss. I am sorry that anyone has to feel that kind of pain in this life, but I thank you for teaching all of us a few thing along the way. <BR/><BR/>Camille is BEAUTIFUL!Melody B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03665580115965435055noreply@blogger.com